A Teen’s Journey to Cultural Discovery and Resilience

I lived in Oman for four years, from the age of nine and a half to thirteen and a half, due to my father's job. It was an experience that changed my life in many ways.

Upon my arrival in Oman, I was excited but also nervous, unsure of what to expect. Everything differed from my home country of Bangladesh—the food, the clothes, the language, the customs—everything was unfamiliar and strange.

Initially, I struggled to adjust, feeling lost and alone. I missed my family in Bangladesh and the familiar sights and sounds of my homeland. Furthermore, I felt like an outsider in Oman. I couldn't speak Arabic, and I hesitated to make new friends.

However, one day, my father took me to a local market, and I was overwhelmed by the sights and sounds. People from around the world dressed in colourful clothing and speaking different languages made me feel like I was in a wonderland.

In the market, I noticed a group of children playing together, laughing, and having fun. Encouraged by my father, I hesitantly approached them. To my surprise, they were very welcoming, not caring about our differences. They simply wanted to play, and I quickly forgot my worries and joined in the fun.

That day, I realised I didn't have to be worried or nervous. I could still be myself even in a new country, make new friends, and have fun. I began putting more effort into adjusting to life in Oman, gradually learning Arabic through interactions with natives and joining a local Quran school. I also forged friendships with Omani children.

Over time, Oman became my home, and I overcame the initial culture shock to become an integral part of the community. Fond memories filled my time there: camping trips with friends and family, swimming in the crystal-clear waters of the Gulf of Oman, and exploring ancient forts and ruins.

I also gained insights into Omani culture and traditions, discovering the importance of community and the welcoming and hospitable nature of the Omani people. In Oman, I learned about my own adaptability and resilience.

In 2020, the COVID-19 pandemic hit Oman, leading to lockdowns and closures of schools and businesses. Initially scared and confused, I witnessed the Omani authorities effectively managing the situation with strict measures and a comprehensive vaccination programme, keeping citizens safe.

During the pandemic, I adapted to a new way of life with online classes and increased time at home. Despite isolation, the Omani community's support remained strong, with friends and neighbours regularly checking in and providing food and supplies. The experience emphasised the importance of community and resilience.

In 2023, the time came to return to Bangladesh. Although leaving Oman was difficult, I was eager to reunite with family and friends and experience my home country as an adult.

I have been back in Bangladesh for a few months now, and I am still adjusting to my new life. However, I am grateful for the growth and learning I experienced during my time in Oman. The experience was significant, and I cherish the friends and memories made there, knowing they will stay with me forever.

Raiyan Kabir, Class 9, BAF Shaheen English Medium College

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